21 steps for Happy Life

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. 

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. 

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. 

FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it. 

FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye. 

SIX.. Be engaged at least six months before you get married. 

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight. 

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. 

TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. 

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives. 

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly. 

THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" 

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 

FIFTEEN. Say "God bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. 

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson . 

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone. 

LUNCH WITH GOD

A little boy wanted to meet God.

He packed his suitcase with two sets of his dress and some packets of Cakes and he started his journey.

He walked a long and felt tired.

So he sat in a park on the way and opened a packet to take a cake to eat.

Then he noticed an old woman sitting sad with hunger nearby, so he offered her a piece of cake.

She gratefully accepted it with a wide look and smiled at him. Her smile was so pretty that the boy longed to see it again. After some time he offered her another piece of cake.

Again, she accepted it and smiled at him.

The boy was delighted!

They sat there all afternoon eating and smiling, but they never said a word.

While it grew dark, the boy was frightened and he got up to leave but before he had gone more than a few steps, he ran back and gave her a hug and she kissed him with her prettiest smile. When the boy opened the door,his mother was surprised by the look of joy on his face. She asked him,"What did you do today that made you look so happy?"

He replied,"I had lunch with God."

Before his mother could respond, he added,

"You know what? She's got the most beautiful smile I've ever seen in my life!"

Meanwhile, the old woman, also radiant with joy, returned to her home.

Her son was stunned by the look of peace on her face and asked,

"Mom, what did you do today that made you so happy?

"She replied,"I ate cakes in the park with God."

Before her son responded, she added,"You know, he's much younger than I expected."

Too often we underestimate the power of

a touch,

a smile,

a kind word,

a listening ear,

an honest compliment,

or the smallest act of caring,

all of which have the potential to turn a life around.

Remember, nobody knows how God will look like.

People come into our lives for a reason,

for a season,

or for a lifetime.

Accept all of them equally!

AND LET THEM SEE GOD IN YOU!!!

Situations change with time

A poor boy loved a rich girl.

One day the boy proposed her.

Then the girl said, "listen! your

monthly salary is my daily hand

expenses. Should I be involved

with you? How could you thought

that? I will never love you. So,

forget me 'n get engaged with

someone else of your level."

But somehow the boy could not

forget her so easily.

10 years later.

One day they became face to face

in a shopping center. The lady

said, "Hey! you! How are you?

Now I'm married. Do you know

how much is my husband's

salary? Rs. 2 lac per month! Can

you imagine? 'n he is also very

smart."

The guy's eyes got wet with tear

by hearing those words.

After few minutes her husband

came before the lady could say

something to the guy, her

husband started to say by seeing

the guy.

"Sir! You here? Meet my wife."

Then he said to her wife, "I'm

going to assist a project of sir,

which is of Rs. 200 crore. 'n do u

know a fact? Sir loved a girl but he

didn't get her. That's why still he

is unmarried. How much lucky the

girl was. Isn't it? Now a days who

can love like that way?"